Welcome to Whatever She Wants

I’m Courtney. I’m Coco. I’m both- and all the space between.

I created this space to honor every version of me- from the stage to the journal, from my kitchen to the club.

You’ll find essays, events, merch, and more. It’s all connected.

Navigate the Grey: Essays that live in the in-between...

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  • A Birthday Post

    A Birthday Post

    Something I love about my birthday, is that I get to celebrate my own personal new year right along with our astronomical one. I love that it’s in the final...

    A Birthday Post

    Something I love about my birthday, is that I get to celebrate my own personal new year right along with our astronomical one. I love that it’s in the final...

  • It wasn't as scary as I thought it would be...

    It wasn't as scary as I thought it would be...

    I’m pretty loud about my history with Ballet. My first exposure was at age 5, dancing in the aisles during a Nutcracker performance, and turned into a BFA from UARTS...

    It wasn't as scary as I thought it would be...

    I’m pretty loud about my history with Ballet. My first exposure was at age 5, dancing in the aisles during a Nutcracker performance, and turned into a BFA from UARTS...

  • AND I WON.

    AND I WON.

    Call me an asshole, but I have a degree in dance performance, and a 15 year career in pole performance. I was not about to pay $5,000 for something that...

    AND I WON.

    Call me an asshole, but I have a degree in dance performance, and a 15 year career in pole performance. I was not about to pay $5,000 for something that...

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Writer. Dancer. Food Enthusiast. Stripper. Devotee of Self-Reinvention.

This is where I hold it all-

Courtney is the writer, the witness, the woman becoming.

Coco is the performer, the powerhouse, the provocateur.

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