Welcome to Whatever She Wants

I’m Courtney. I’m Coco. I’m both- and all the space between.

I created this space to honor every version of me- from the stage to the journal, from my kitchen to the club.

You’ll find essays, events, merch, and more. It’s all connected.

Navigate the Grey: Essays that live in the in-between...

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  • AND I WON.

    AND I WON.

    Call me an asshole, but I have a degree in dance performance, and a 15 year career in pole performance. I was not about to pay $5,000 for something that...

    AND I WON.

    Call me an asshole, but I have a degree in dance performance, and a 15 year career in pole performance. I was not about to pay $5,000 for something that...

  • Courtney Confidential

    Courtney Confidential

    Or; how reading a kitchen classic infuriated me beyond belief, and it had nothing to do with the actual text.   What was initially written as a memoir, and an...

    Courtney Confidential

    Or; how reading a kitchen classic infuriated me beyond belief, and it had nothing to do with the actual text.   What was initially written as a memoir, and an...

  • A recap of a ‘not club’ performance.

    A recap of a ‘not club’ performance.

    The evening was full of 15 different performers ranging from Pole dancers- like me- to live painting, traditional drag, political performance art, and a human pincushion circus side show. I...

    A recap of a ‘not club’ performance.

    The evening was full of 15 different performers ranging from Pole dancers- like me- to live painting, traditional drag, political performance art, and a human pincushion circus side show. I...

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  • DYKE NIGHT Vol. 3

    Friday, September 19th

    Propaganda, Lake Worth

    An evening of Pole, Burlesque, and Drag.

    21+ Doors at 8P

    A variety of venders supplying oddities, art, tarot and jewelry
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Have a Taste...

Writer. Dancer. Food Enthusiast. Stripper. Devotee of Self-Reinvention.

This is where I hold it all-

Courtney is the writer, the witness, the woman becoming.

Coco is the performer, the powerhouse, the provocateur.

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