Welcome to Whatever She Wants

I’m Courtney. I’m Coco. I’m both- and all the space between.

I created this space to honor every version of me- from the stage to the journal, from my kitchen to the club.

You’ll find essays, events, merch, and more. It’s all connected.

Navigate the Grey: Essays that live in the in-between...

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  • Courtney Confidential

    Courtney Confidential

    Or; how reading a kitchen classic infuriated me beyond belief, and it had nothing to do with the actual text.   What was initially written as a memoir, and an...

    Courtney Confidential

    Or; how reading a kitchen classic infuriated me beyond belief, and it had nothing to do with the actual text.   What was initially written as a memoir, and an...

  • A recap of a ‘not club’ performance.

    A recap of a ‘not club’ performance.

    The evening was full of 15 different performers ranging from Pole dancers- like me- to live painting, traditional drag, political performance art, and a human pincushion circus side show. I...

    A recap of a ‘not club’ performance.

    The evening was full of 15 different performers ranging from Pole dancers- like me- to live painting, traditional drag, political performance art, and a human pincushion circus side show. I...

  • An opportunity to utilize both my food experience and my SW experience.

    An opportunity to utilize both my food experien...

    This movie is not just fantastic because it’s an excellent representation of the restaurant industry, but it is also one of the only films I can think of that features...

    An opportunity to utilize both my food experien...

    This movie is not just fantastic because it’s an excellent representation of the restaurant industry, but it is also one of the only films I can think of that features...

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Next on Stage:

  • Pole Sport Organization Nationals

    August 24th Orlando, FL

    The world's largest professional and amateur pole dance competition, where over 200 dancers will perform at this national event.

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    Choose Section 3 to catch Coco Compete in the Level 4 Down To Flow category.

  • PoleCon: West 2025

    Sept 6th, Denver, CO
    Catch Coco perform in the Sexy Showcase
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    navigate to page 6 and select Sexy Showcase ONLY Ticket

  • PSO Virgo

    September 27th, Online via Crowdcast

    Watch Coco compete in Level 4 Sensual category

    Pole Sport Organization Virtual Pole Championship is an online competition.

    → Request the performance link
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Writer. Dancer. Food Enthusiast. Stripper. Devotee of Self-Reinvention.

This is where I hold it all-

Courtney is the writer, the witness, the woman becoming.

Coco is the performer, the powerhouse, the provocateur.

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